Is Your Teen Having Sex? Dr. Robyn on NBC Talk about it

Think that because your teens aren’t talking to you about sex that they aren’t doing it? Research tells us that 1/4 of teens have sex by age 15, and some are having it as young as age 12.  While many parents are hoping that their teen is in the percentage of teens who aren’t “doing [...]

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Teens, love, and sex

The Top 10 Dos and Don’ts of Talking to Teens about Sex

Yesterday, I was on NBC’s LXtv, discussing teens and sex.  While this is often a touchy subject for parents to broach as it can be mixed with embarrassment, controversy, and confusion, it’s vital that parents are talking to their children about sex rather than allowing their kids to be schooled by their friends or the media.

What do parents need to know about talking to their kids about sex?

(1) Talk about it earlier than you might want: Research tells us that early sex may be related to increased delinquency later on. The link? Risky behavior. Just as you talk to your young teens about drugs and alcohol, talk to them about sex. Discussions about the body, the differences between boys and girls, and being proud and respectful of oneself, can start way before any discussion of sex is even broached.  Making it “normal” to talk about things related to the body, will make it easier for everyone to talk about sex when it feels like the right time. [click to continue…]

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National Poll: Students not Prepared After High School

March 4, 2010 Parenting tips

I’m frustrated. Am I the only one? My child is only 1 years old and I’m already worried about her education. Our education system is looking more dismal.  We see the problems—we may even see some solutions—but we aren’t connecting the dots with actual support and change.
“School reform today is like a freight train, [...]

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Dr. Robyn Silverman introduces the March Powerful Word: Anger Management

March 2, 2010 Character Education

Anger Management Quotes:
“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned” (Buddha)
“Two things a man should never be angry at: what he can help, and what he cannot help.” (Thomas Fuller)
“If you are patient in one moment of [...]

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What’s My Body’s Net Worth? The Normative Nature of Abnormal Body Image

February 25, 2010 Body Image

In honor of National Eating Disorders Awareness Week, it’s important to reflect on how we got ourselves into such a pickle in the first place.  I mean, during this week we are not just talking about those girls, women, boys, and men who have clinical eating disorders. We’re talking about the pervasive disordered eating that [...]

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Ask Dr. Robyn: Is My Child Overscheduled?

February 24, 2010 Parenting tips

“Can you provide your thoughts on the trend we have been seeing with parents over scheduling their children, with an activity sometimes every night of the week. Is there a general agreement with child development specialists as to what is an appropriate number of activities by age?”
I get this question about children and over-scheduling quite [...]

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Dr. Robyn Silverman on the Tyra Show – Perfectionism

February 23, 2010 Monthly Video

Some teens feel that they must be perfect at everything.  Perfect grades. Perfect clothes. Perfect body.  Perfectionism puts an enormous strain on a teen’s everyday life. Here’s the most recent clip of Dr. Robyn Silverman appearing as an Expert on The Tyra Show dealing with perfectionism and teens who are constantly striving to be perfect.
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New Poll: Girls Feeling the Pressure from the Fashion Industry

February 22, 2010 Body Image

A National Study released by Girl Scouts of the USA tells us that 9 out of 10 girls say that the fashion industry is at least partially responsible for girls’ obsession with being skinny today.
In this nationwide study called “Beauty Redefined,” more than 1000 girls ages 13-17 were surveyed. Would you like to hear a [...]

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Poor Body Image: Affecting Men Too

February 18, 2010 Body Image

Johnny Rock // Body Image Project // Review from Body Image Project
Studies show us that more and more, boys and men are suffering from poor body image.  Girls and women are no longer the only ones who are embarrassed, frustrated, disgusted, or dissatisfied with their physiques.  Research tells us that boys are increasingly worried about [...]

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Plus Size Models: Finally? Big Deal? Not Really Plus Sized?

February 16, 2010 Body Image

It turns out that Fashion Week may actually be reflecting what we’ve known all along: Not all girls and women are a size 0. Some catwalks, while still filled with the tiniest models, are more readily exploring the use of more full-figured gals.  By full-figured, I mean, size 12.
So, I ask you, is it enough? [...]

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